Well, The Rock Star had a sleepover last night for his 13th birthday.
The Champ went to a friend's house for a sleepover, so that left us with
7 tween/teenage boys, one Little Big Man who thought he should be able
to hang out with the tween/teenage boys, one Little Princess who thinks
she is a boy and didn't understand why she couldn't hang out with them
(and showed us by kicking, screaming, and crying), and one sweet baby
who didn't like all the noise from the tween/teenage boys, Little Big
Man, and the screaming Princess.
We tried to talk The Rock Star out of having a sleepover for exactly
those reasons, but he wouldn't waiver. We offered a skating party,
bowling party, laser tag party, shopping, turning our attic into his own
bedroom, BUT all to no avail. Nope, he was bound and determined to
have a sleepover. "Mom, it's the only thing that will make me happy,
and you said you just wanted me to be happy, and I could choose anything
for my birthday party."
Which is why I had to laugh when a half hour after the party started, he
came upstairs and said "Mom, can I open my presents now?" NO, I said.
We do that later when it's time for cake. "But MOM, everyone is kind
of wild and they don't want to play video games, and Little Big Man and
Little Princess won't leave us alone, and I need something for everyone
to do to calm them down!" After that statement, as I was beaming with
pride that I actually instilled my dislike of loud, wild acting children
into my teenage son, I let him open his presents. Of course I had to
add, "Do you see why we didn't want you to have a sleepover?" Yes,
Mom.....